Just watched 500 days of Summer. The clothes the two main character wear are just beautiful and I wish EVERYONE dresses like that all the time. Although in London, you could but you'd probably end up freezing to death. For me, the movie explores how people can fall in love with someone who doesn't love them back as equally. The shock of realisation that the feelings you developed innately is not mutually reciprocated and shared. For me it questions, what is it that makes you fall in love? Is it fate or just coincidence? Well I still don't bloody know.
Now with my guy, the guy I thought I was in love with on and off for 10 years, told me last Sunday that he's getting engaged. Plus is probably getting married next year towards the month of my birthday. I loved him as much as I am capable of loving anyone, which isn't much really. But I thought I could work on it and as long as he cares, so will I. But he is more sensible than me. He didn't love me enough. The girl he is marrying, he's not in love with but is willing to make it work. Because his parents approve of her. He tells me he's "over the moon", which hurts but i don't really know how true it is. I do know though he didn't choose to make it work with me because it would have been harder work.
That movie just broke my heart again. I knew how exactly how Tom in the movie was feeling through the entire movie. Because I have felt all those things over and over again.
Watch 500 years of Summer if you have had your heart kicked and stampeded on. Watch it if you think good love only happens to others, and the love you experience always sucks and disappoints.
P.s I always secretly wished to fall in love like Summer. As the years go by, I seriously doubt that will happen!
P.s on different note, Sweet Disposition by Temper Trap which is played twice in the movie is definitely this summer's song for me :)
p.s 05100611
xxx
Now with my guy, the guy I thought I was in love with on and off for 10 years, told me last Sunday that he's getting engaged. Plus is probably getting married next year towards the month of my birthday. I loved him as much as I am capable of loving anyone, which isn't much really. But I thought I could work on it and as long as he cares, so will I. But he is more sensible than me. He didn't love me enough. The girl he is marrying, he's not in love with but is willing to make it work. Because his parents approve of her. He tells me he's "over the moon", which hurts but i don't really know how true it is. I do know though he didn't choose to make it work with me because it would have been harder work.
That movie just broke my heart again. I knew how exactly how Tom in the movie was feeling through the entire movie. Because I have felt all those things over and over again.
Watch 500 years of Summer if you have had your heart kicked and stampeded on. Watch it if you think good love only happens to others, and the love you experience always sucks and disappoints.
P.s I always secretly wished to fall in love like Summer. As the years go by, I seriously doubt that will happen!
P.s on different note, Sweet Disposition by Temper Trap which is played twice in the movie is definitely this summer's song for me :)
p.s 05100611
xxx
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